When you get to college, you will have to walk into an unfamiliar environment and spend long periods away from home. You will be leaving your friends and the comforts of home behind. You will have to face new challenges emotionally, physically, academically, and socially. Your personal weaknesses will be tested, and you will have to find new strengths to pull you through. Sound familiar? A summer program will test you in all of the same ways, but the length of commitment is shorter, the environment is smaller (20 kids vs. 2,000), the stakes are lower, the activities more fun, the support groups better. Putting yourself in this challenging environment now is a perfect way to learn to manage dramatic, unsupervised, unsupported transitions later.
Summer programs offer you the opportunity to try out skills, job descriptions, or fantasies that normally require years of commitment to achieve. They also provide an opportunity to travel to exotic places, meet people from different countries, develop arcane but interesting skills, and to generally do things that you could never do at home.
Summer programs provide you with a chance to be whoever you want to be. Many challenging programs create an environment where teamwork is a survival skill. Other programs focus on creating an atmosphere of open, honest communication. No posturing, no being cool, no playing to the audience, just talking about issues that are confronting the entire group. Summer programs that push the whole student—mentally, physically, emotionally, and socially—create a space in which a teenager can develop skills and personality traits that may have been stifled in school. If you are feeling typecast, pigeonholed, or trapped in a particular peer group, summer programs allow you to change the channel.
If the notion of expanding your personal limits sounds scary to you, don't worry. Good summer programs are not in the business of setting people up for failure. If they confronted students with challenges but did not help them to succeed, no one would come back. They are created for students just like you. If you're not sure, call the references that they give you. They will all tell you the same thing: "If you think that it won't work, don't worry. You can do it. I didn't think that I would ever do it, but I did, and now I'll never forget it!"
There is nothing boring about sitting in a kayak off the coast of Alaska. Rebuilding old
Romanesque chapels in the south of France is way more interesting than painting houses in Pennsylvania. Spend a summer with twenty of your peers doing community service in Peru where just walking down the street is fun. Most of the students that we've spoken to tell us that the programs that they went on made for the dirtiest, hottest, hungriest, most exhausting—but quite possibly the happiest—summers they ever spent. What more do you need to know? These are people just like you.
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